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Friends and Lovers
Mary Sterling and John Spiller (Lover Relationship) The Astrological Charts Mary Sterling
John Spiller
Astrological Compatibility
Report for Mary Sterling You are warmly generous and always gracious with others. You have an innate sense of playfulness and self-discovery that endears you to all who come to know you. You will always have a bit of the child about you, and you tend to require considerable attention from a mate. Anyone who gets to know you knows that you take yourself ever so seriously. You prefer a mate with great ambitions and plans, who dares to dream the impossible dream! You benefit from being drawn out of yourself by someone with less self-consciousness. Above all, you really value a close friend -- especially in a lover. You are attracted to visionaries with broad humanitarian goals. Aquarius on 7th Cusp You love the oddball and the unfettered. You may be drawn to social visionaries and to unconventional types in general -- a taste for the bohemian. You may have many unusual relationships of short duration. There is an on-again, off-again, quality to your affairs. You depend on relationships for insights into yourself and your life. Uranus Ruler of 7th You really depend on relationships for growth and support, and you tend to find yourself in, and by means of, other people. Others find you very supportive. You may be a bit of a "mother hen" when it comes to watching over your friends and partners. Moon in 7th House Without a partner your career may tend to flounder, so it's not likely you will live the single life for long. With you, it's a question of getting in a good relationship and then concentrating on being a success story, and not vice versa. You need a partner that will cheer you on in your work, or at the very least not stand in your way. There is also a tendency to attract people of some stature as friends, with the result that you tend to know the top professionals in your field or social group. Jupiter in 7th House Report for Mary Sterling You are very skilled and exhibit great artistry in whatever you do. Your work is always well organized and efficiently produced. You are driven to accept more and more responsibility, which is not a burden to you. This is a sign of excellent managerial ability. You're in it for the long haul and are a good example of what real discipline looks like. Mars Trine Saturn (orb: 00 44') Good things tend to come your way, and you could end up with a lot of money, property -- possessions of all kinds. You are by nature generous, and probably give as much as you get. There could be a love of travel and exploring, finding your own way through life. You tend to appreciate authority, your elders, and conservative values. Others will value you for your warmth and openness. You are quite fortunate. Venus Sextile Jupiter (orb: 01 54') You communicate very well, and it is easy for you to give others a feeling for whatever you're thinking. You tend to believe that there is almost no problem that cannot be handled with words, by talking it out. You could be a fine speaker. Your natural sensitivity for the feelings and thoughts of those around you makes you a valued community member. Needless to say, you want a partner who is at home with feelings and -- above all -- likes to talk. Sun Conjunction Mercury (orb: 03 41') You love to lose yourself in your latest dream, whether it be a person or a project. You find it easy to be caught up in images -- dreams, psychology, metaphysics, cinema, etc. You probably love movies -- anything that flicks on the silver screen. You may be an artist and you certainly run with an artistic crowd. You are charming to the point of being enchanting. Very idealistic. Venus Trine You have always had a drive to delve into the unknown. The cosmos has real trouble keeping secrets from you once you have made your mind up to investigate. You have great perseverance and staying power. You work well in a crisis; emergencies of all kinds find you on the spot, ready to test your mettle. You are brave -- and unafraid of death or people. You do well with investments, property, and other people's money. You have very little sense of propriety and tend to call a spade a spade. You like to get your hands in the real stuff of life, blood and all. Mars Trine Pluto (orb: 07 20') You were born lucky and have never had trouble finding support and approval from others. You may find that working with people is what you want to do for a career. Whether professionally or not, you will find yourself guiding and directing other people in one way or another. You have a way with other people and could do well in advertising, sales... any occupation that works with the public. If anything, you might have had it a little too easy, been a little too lucky. Moon Conjunction Jupiter (orb: 08 01') You are comfortable with your sexual identity, and tend to be emotionally well balanced. There is a natural rhythm in the way you handle the day-to-day problems of work and play, with the result that you are capable of sustained effort. These same qualities affect your relationships too. They tend to be harmonious and long lasting. Moon Trine Sun (orb: 08 23') Report for Mary Sterling You don't have much faith in people seeing what is good about you on first meeting. You want to do something for them, somehow show them by action and work what you are really about. You are never a lightweight, for you take feelings very seriously. Sometimes you can't help but be a party-pooper. You won't just let your feelings out without examining them. Contact with others may have the effect of putting them in touch with their more serious side. Some may see you as religious or meditative. Moon Square Saturn (orb: 02 38') You may choose to pursue a dreamy idealism at the expense of more mundane concerns. Somehow you always manage to pit your ideals against the actual reality of the situation. Is it escapism or vision? Probably some of both. You will need a partner who can bring things into focus without shattering your gentle dream world. There may have been some rather harsh realities connected to your upbringing. You may find yourself putting the feminine principle on a pedestal. Moon Opposition Report for Mary Sterling You can benefit a lot from the support of this person. If you stop and think about it, you couldn't imagine a much more perfect response from the cosmos to yourself than you find in John.. For one, he is almost totally supportive of you, warts and all. And there is every reason to believe that he could aid you financially, as well as romantically. Good things could happen with and through him. Here is a real opportunity for you to take hold and develop your resources. This is fertile soil for many things. His Moon in Your Second House The two of you probably met as part of a group that shared some common interest. John... struck you as a peer, an equal who shared perhaps the same new-age way of seeing things that you do. You have both had the same vision, a common dream, and probably share a mutual resolve to see that those dreams happen. There is a sense of a brave new world about this friendship. The two of you standing on the edge of the future. He represents the way you feel relationships should be. There is a feeling of doing the right thing, what ought to be done, even at the expense of a little warmth. His Sun in Your Eleventh House John... is someone you will value for his practical and pragmatic outlook on life. You may come to depend on his advice regarding your career, or work. He can put into words ways and ideas of doing things that may better help you manage your own business. Here would be a good business partner too, one whose speaking and writing skills could prove of great value and use. His Mercury in Your Tenth House John... may have been attracted to you because of the friends and acquaintances you have. He values shared goals and common ties, in particular if they have some kind of moral or humanitarian purpose. You may work and live together as part of a project or community. You may be just friends and never lovers. He has a sense of your hopes and dreams, and loves you for them. He finds your friends uplifting and worthwhile. His Venus in Your Eleventh House John... is on a one-person campaign to bolster your career and public image. He seems to know which way you are headed and wants to give you a boost in that direction. He is very ambitious when it comes to your career and is always pushing to improve your prospects. Although this can be tiresome, and you may not always be in the mood for improvement, it is mostly beneficial. He really does know what he is doing. His Mars in Your Tenth House There are real career opportunities in knowing John.. He may be the key to providing you with insight as to how you can improve your position or social standing. He has an obvious integrity and sense of fairness that could serve to make you more upright and respected. He has the capacity to show you the way to more practical control and achievement. A great business partner. His Jupiter in Your Tenth House He seems to be very hard on your sense of altruism. Your attempts to be charitable or to sacrifice may be played down or belittled by him. He won't tolerate your feeling sorry for yourself or for the state of the world. It could be difficult for you to feel philanthropic or kind when the two of you are together. His Saturn in Your Twelfth House You may have met in an unusual, unexpected way. There is always this sense that he may vanish as quickly as he appeared. You never are quite sure what he is about to do next. There is a strong possibility that John... was a key to introducing you to new people or a new crowd. Time spent together is fun and filled with a sense of adventure and discovery. He is good at sharing new ways to approach people and relationships. His Uranus in Your Seventh House This relationship is potentially a very useful one. Through John... you get a real sense of self-sacrifice and working for the benefit of all mankind. You may be swept up in an almost dreamlike state, able to be very forgiving and understanding. You may feel a little saintlike. On the down side, the whole thing can find you carried away to the point of neglecting the realities of life. You might give all your possessions away. Who knows if that would be a good or a bad thing? His He is very dynamic, and you probably met him in a group of friends or at a community function. He may instantly set about forming a new group of friends for you to hang around with, or he may advise you on which groups and projects are really worthwhile. John... will strip away a lot of needless social niceties. Through him you may be exposed to a more radical form of politics or group goal than heretofore. He is very serious about all of this. His Pluto in Your Eleventh House Report for Mary Sterling John... is probably adept at putting some of your ambitions into words. You can see that he understands your feelings and what motivates you. This makes for many highly spirited exchanges. Your Mars Sextile His Mercury (orb: 00 07') You find it easy to talk to (sometimes at) John..., and you think about him a lot. He encourages you mentally, and may support some communication project you are involved in -- speaking, writing, etc. Your Mercury Conjunction His Sun (orb: 01 07') You are wholeheartedly supportive of John's values and ideals. You are his best fan. He is always appreciative of your feelings and moods, with the result that you feel very much valued. This is a very nice arrangement. Your Moon Trine His Venus (orb: 02 03') This could be a very physically satisfying relationship, one with lots of action and good emotional exchange. Work hard; play hard. You may have a healthy sense of competition, since you both tend to urge the other to greater heights. Sports or exercise could be important. Your Mars Sextile His Mars (orb: 02 17') This might turn out to be a great working (business) relationship. You have no trouble getting behind him, and can urge him to greater success. There is a natural sense of harmony and flow to the relationship. Your Mars Sextile His Jupiter (orb: 02 20') This is an easygoing relationship with plenty of give and take on both sides and very little friction. There is a tendency to identify with one another, and you both have a great deal in common. Your Sun Conjunction His Sun (orb: 02 35') You somehow are able to put John's dreams and ideals into words. He finds you very imaginative, even eloquent, and may love poetry and music that you write. There is a basic sense of shared ideals, and you have long dreamy conversations. Your Mercury Sextile His You tend to love his passionate nature. He knows this, and that you appreciate his need for self-analysis and confrontation. Your relationship may be very intense, but always exciting. Things are seldom dull. Your Venus Sextile His Pluto (orb: 04 33') You tend to support and encourage an independent streak in John... You don't mind that he enjoys being a little different. You find him emotionally stimulating, and even unique. He may have introduced you to new attitudes toward home and family, and new ways of feeling. Your Moon Conjunction His Uranus (orb: 04 55') You have always known that he loves you, and you can't help but find this charming. You have a sense of being valued and appreciated for the right reasons. This is a warm and affectionate relationship. Your Sun Conjunction His Venus (orb: 06 19') He manages to exert a good influence on your drive to succeed, bringing discipline and order that you may lack. There could be a long-term and hard-working relationship. He manages your talents with skill and understanding. Your Mars Trine His Saturn (orb: 06 27') Report for Mary Sterling - Challenges in your relationship with John Spiller There are a lot of hurt feelings in this relationship. Argument and power struggles are to be expected. You tend to ignore, or not be sufficiently supportive of, John's feelings. He can't help but get in digs at you on a regular basis. Your He may have a tendency to throw cold water on your enthusiasms and hurt your feelings. You may not take his problems seriously enough to suit him, and he may tend to restrict your natural sense of love and appreciation. There is cold-war tension to this relationship. Your From time to time there may be some hard feelings and harsh words between you. You may not feel like talking, or find that you can't support a lot of what he is saying. He may not be able to understand how you feel, and resents your attitude. Your Heavy feelings and emotional drama will be a part of this relationship. You may feel that he refuses to support your life ambitions. You may find yourself hurting his feelings again and again. A stormy marriage. Your Mars Opposition His Moon (orb: 03 31') There is this sense of the unromantic. He may feel that you don't value his ideals and don't support his dreams. You may find him unrealistic and may not appreciate "escapism" on his part. Your John... may not appreciate the way you come on and act. Your basic energy, the way you feel, is counter in some way to his values and ideals. He may act aloof. You may have a tendency to be a bull in a china shop when it comes to what he cares about. Your John... may feel that he doesn't have your support when it comes to matters of career and life direction. There may be hard feelings. You may find the decisions he makes upsetting to you emotionally. His basic philosophy of life can sometimes be at odds with the way you are feeling. Your You find that it is easy for you to hurt his feelings, or he takes offense easily, with the result that he is not always as supportive of you as you might wish. You both waste a lot of time holding out against the other. You may feel that he ignores you. Your Sun Square His Moon (orb: 06 47') Report for John F. Kennedy You're a real smoothie, refined and ever so facile when it comes to handling other people -- a diplomat. And yet -- despite all of this apparent calm -- you like your partners anything but cool. You can't resist impulsive and action-oriented people -- the more daring, the better. You bring out the recklessness in those you love, and you love it. Although at first meeting one might never suspect this, you love to walk on the wild side. Aries on 7th Cusp Relationships tend to be hot and heavy. You are drawn to partners who are aggressive, assertive, and very emotional. Mars Ruler of 7th Report for John Spiller You are attractive and tend to be physically active. You just might participate in or manage some athletic endeavor. You are in tune with your feelings and really know how to play a crowd for the maximum response. You can always count on support from those around you. You seldom hide how you feel and therefore are no stranger to an occasional argument. You probably got a lot of emotional support as a child, especially from your mother. Moon Trine Mars (orb: 01 14') When it comes to self-expression, you are a natural and can always put what you feel into words. Your mind is quick and tends not to get bogged down in emotional issues. You would do well in any of the communication fields, and are an excellent speaker. People find it easy to get a sense for a subject when you put it into words. You write well. Mercury Conjunction Mars (orb: 02 10') You are a great problem-solver, and can always think of a way to do almost anything. Your friends know you to be fair, and your integrity is unquestionable. You may find yourself interested in legal matters, publishing, philosophical and religious subjects, and would make a good teacher or instructor. Scientific investigation would interest you. Mercury Conjunction Jupiter (orb: 02 27') You communicate very well, and it is easy for you to give others a feeling for whatever you're thinking. You tend to believe that there is almost no problem that cannot be handled with words, by talking it out. You could be a fine speaker. Your natural sensitivity for the feelings and thoughts of those around you makes you a valued community member. Needless to say, you want a partner who is at home with feelings and -- above all -- likes to talk. Moon Trine Mercury (orb: 03 23') You really know how to pace yourself and seldom waste a moment or a move. It would be difficult for you not to be a success at anything you choose to do. Career problems seldom last long or prove very difficult. Others remark on your creative energy, great drive, and the fact that you never seem to let up. It all runs so smoothly. You may be moved to work with the law, publishing, education -- any field where you have an opportunity to guide and educate others. Mars Conjunction Jupiter (orb: 04 37') You have a sense of the extraordinary and wonderful about you. People sense that you have an insight into the larger picture, and you can communicate this idea of unity to a group. You are great at working with images, whether psychological, artistic, or cinematic. You probably love movies and music, anything with a grand theme or gesture. You are not just another dreamer. You can put your imagination to work. Your partner may have to work overtime to live up to your ideal of him/her, and to keep you down to earth and away from woolgathering. You need someone who loves to explore the dreamy psychological underside of life. You see beneath the surface of things. Sun Sextile You were born lucky and have never had trouble finding support and approval from others. You may find that working with people is what you want to do for a career. Whether professionally or not, you will find yourself guiding and directing other people in one way or another. You have a way with other people and could do well in advertising, sales... any occupation that works with the public. If anything, you might have had it a little too easy, been a little too lucky. Moon Trine Jupiter (orb: 05 51') You value independence in others, especially a lover. They must have some unique quality for you to take an interest. Your taste in friends runs to the unconventional. You appreciate variety in all things and are delighted when a partner comes up with a new and different way to get your attention. You don't like to be tied down. You probably have a penchant for inventions, electronics, and new-age technology. Venus Trine Uranus (orb: 06 58') You tend to like partners that are authority figures, perhaps older, or dignified, in one way. You are warm, appreciative, and tend to lavish affection on those you can look up to and respect in some way. Sun Conjunction Venus (orb: 08 54') Report for John Spiller You have mixed feelings when it comes to other people. You can't live with them and you can't live without them. You are used to a high degree of emotional tension. People may misinterpret your emotional chargedness as aggression or disapproval, when in fact that's just the way you are. They may not support your values. You long for a smooth relationship, but if you look at your history it's been a rocky road indeed. You may have trouble locating an environment where you feel comfortable and can flourish. Moon Square Venus (orb: 00 28') Everyone can testify to your brilliant mind, but most would also find you somewhat erratic and unpredictable. You don't always have the follow-through you pretend to have. You tend to change your mind in the middle of a project and go rushing off in some new direction. You are to some degree the victim of your own whims. You have trouble finding practical uses for your plentiful insights. You have a real temper and are prone to sudden outbursts. You insist on being independent, having your own way, and sometimes this is against your own best interests. You're either fast and furious, or not there at all. A gentle partner who can forgive, and most of all forget, would be a blessing. A lot of this stems from the insecurity you have concerning your emotional life. You are torn between the impulse to stand on your own feet, and a need to be cared for and nurtured. Your independent streak may be ashamed of the need on your part for love and affection. It's a no win situation. This could also be re-enforced by a mother and father who may have worked at cross purposes. The resulting tension will have to be dealt with gradually and methodically. Moon Square Sun (orb: 09 22') Report for John Spiller You probably felt at home with Mary right from the start. You enjoy doing things together. It feels natural and good. It occurs to you that this relationship could last a while. She feels almost like family and does a lot to bring out your more domestic side. The two of you might cater to the public or run a business from your home. Her Moon in Your Fourth House Whether she has conventional good looks or not, Mary has true sex appeal for you. Conventions go out the window and there it is, right in front of you. She has a way of cutting through any reservations you might have and exposing even your most secret thoughts. There is no use pretending you are anything other than you are. There can be no secrets between you. All this can be terribly exciting. She may be able to serve as a key to some important investment or other financial arrangement. You might inherit money through her. Her Sun in Your Eighth House Here is someone with whom you can share your deepest fears and hopes. There are no secrets between you. It tends to just come pouring out whenever the two of you sit down for one of your long talks. There was an instant understanding between you from the first time you met. Your intimacy did not require time to develop. There is no shyness between you. Mary's frankness extends beyond any emotional ties. You can discuss business ventures and career possibilities, and count on good advice. Her Mercury in Your Eighth House Here is a natural partner, one you find both charming and attractive. Mary shares your social values and has similar needs when it comes to relationships. She values your particular social qualities and the way you relate and feel about others. You both tend to respond to situations in similar ways. Something special seems to happen when you two get together. It's as if you both are in love with love. Her Venus in Your Seventh House Mary is a living incentive for you to get out of yourself and do things. Things get very physical, and this runs all the way from good sex to physical activity in general. There is a fresh, almost childlike, quality to your relationship. You feel strength and perhaps are proud of how good you feel about yourself when you are with her. There is the danger of too much of a good thing. The whole thing could get a little self-centered. Her Mars in Your Fifth House She tends to lead you away from the bright lights, and shows you the value of home, family, and security. Mary does not force this upon you. Through her you discover your own desire to just live and build a foundation. You find yourself wanting to settle in and send down roots. She is the key to your discovering these qualities in yourself. You may love to cuddle up together and count the blessings of a peaceful homestead-like existence. Her Jupiter in Your Fourth House This could be an expensive relationship, for Mary can't help but put your resources to the test. She may not value you to the degree that you would like her to, or she may not respond to what you feel are your better qualities. This can leave you feeling cold and disappointed. The charm that others may find intriguing is wasted on her. This is not to say that this will not be a worthwhile relationship, but it will not be supportive in any normal sense of that word. Her Saturn in Your Second House She may view work in a very unconventional manner, preferring to work odd hours or in a different manner when it comes to working for others. Marilyn always manages to find different ways to approach routine subjects. This could include alternate or new-age methods of eating, health care, exercise, and the like. She can do detail work, and is a responsible friend, but not in a 9-to-5 sort of way. She can be ever so inventive and labor-saving when it means finding an alternative to tedium and routine. Her Uranus in Your Sixth House Mary could have a strong effect on your motivation and career direction. You may find her inspiring and able to give you a clear picture of the ideal possibilities of your work. She is capable of generating great enthusiasm on your part, and you are easily enchanted by her images and words which can have an almost numbing effect on you. If you work closely together, this can have a very beneficial effect on your attitude. If you get too far apart, the whole thing can take on an unreal quality. Her A different kind of teacher. Mary tends to view life and philosophy just the way you do. She may take the lead when it comes to introducing you to new ideas and getting rid of worthless pipe dreams. She is an intellectual challenge, and does not hesitate to throw ideas of yours out the window that she finds not to the point. You will seldom find someone who is as intellectually aggressive, a kind of mental purgative. She can change your basic philosophy of life. Her Pluto in Your Ninth House Report for John Spiller She is a real driving wheel for you when it comes to your writing and speaking skills. She can push you to be more articulate, even eloquent, than would otherwise be the case. Conversations with Mary are always wordy and animated, at least from your end. You may find it easy to put her feelings into words. Your Mercury Sextile Her Mars (orb: 00 07') She has a way with words which you find flattering and interesting, since the subject is often you. She loves to talk to you and may also write you letters. You find her stimulating mentally, and communication is most often smooth. Your Sun Conjunction Her Mercury (orb: 01 07') This is about as close to a mutual admiration society as any two are likely to get. Mary is very supportive of your values and ideals. You might even feed on this. You have always felt simple admiration and love for her. You just like the way she feels. Your Venus Trine Her Moon (orb: 02 03') This could be a very physically satisfying relationship, one with lots of action and good emotional exchange. Work hard; play hard. You may have a healthy sense of competition, since you both tend to urge the other to greater heights. Sports or exercise could be important. Your Mars Sextile Her Mars (orb: 02 17') This is an easygoing relationship with plenty of give and take on both sides and very little friction. There is a tendency to identify with one another, and you both have a great deal in common. Your Sun Conjunction Her Sun (orb: 02 35') She looks to you for support for her need for self-analysis and emotional probing. You probably have spent many a late night helping her through a change or two. You find her intensity workable, and you don't mind that she puts you through some emotional changes of your own. Your Moon Sextile Her Pluto (orb: 03 49') This is a good working relationship. Mary tends to bring a real sense of discipline and order into your life. You feel like making a sustained effort when you are with her. You can't help but support her sense for organization and order. Your Moon Sextile Her Saturn (orb: 04 14') You just love Mary, perhaps from the very start, and she knows it. You value her just as she is. She dotes on being the object of your affections. This is a very nice combination. Your Venus Conjunction Her Sun (orb: 06 19') Report for John Spiller Heavy feelings and emotional drama will be a part of this relationship. You may feel that she refuses to support your life ambitions. You may find yourself hurting her feelings again and again. A stormy marriage. Your She is critical of your ideas, and you may feel somewhat tongue-tied when you are around her. She may feel that you refuse to consider her problems or that you dismiss them with a few words. Your Mercury Opposition Her Saturn (orb: 00 51') Problems could arise from Mary's feeling that you have no sympathy for her dreams and ideals -- her more imaginative side. Perhaps you just refuse to discuss these aspects of life with her. Whatever happens, it makes for some disappointing situations. You may not be able to think clearly when you are together. Your It's no secret that you and Mary can have communication problems. You may find her lack of support for what you say and think unfair and hard to accept. Yet it is a two-way street -- often your thoughts and ideas rub her the wrong way too. They are contrary to the way she feels about things, and she finds it difficult to be encouraging at times. Your You may feel that her attempts to discipline you are ineffective at best. Throwing cold water on your enthusiasms has never done much for you. You may delight in shattering her neat little universe from time to time. You feel repressed by her. Your Mars Opposition Her Saturn (orb: 03 01') There are a lot of hurt feelings in this relationship. Argument and power struggles are to be expected. You tend to ignore, or not be sufficiently supportive of, Mary's feelings. She can't help but get in digs at you on a regular basis. Your Moon Opposition Her Mars (orb: 03 31') You may feel that Mary is a hopeless dreamer, and you may refuse to get behind what you term escapism on her part. Your own ambitions run counter to her own sense of mystery and idealism. She may disappoint or deceive you. Your The two of you feel a lot of attraction for each other, but often as not you end up at opposite ends of the couch. You may not appreciate her more aggressive nature or the way she acts. You may not like the way she makes you feel. She feels unappreciated. Your A basic lack of communication, particularly regarding Marys career decisions. She tends to go against your way of thinking, or you refuse to talk about this subject with her. It may be difficult to communicate. Your You may not feel very supportive of Mary, and she may not be able to depend on you as much as she would like. She seems to go against your feelings more than a little, and this could lead to many a confrontation. Your Moon Square Her Sun (orb: 06 47') |
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